By Clayton Max, Author of Infatuation Scripts
“A woman ought to be two things: classy as well as incredible .”– Coco Chanel
Whether you’re looking for a long-lasting companion , or already have one, it pays to have a few key relationship habits .
Read more in this article about the 5 Habits That Men Routinely Fall In Love With
The thing about guys is they don’t always know how to say what they desire in a woman .
Most guys never really learned about sharing their feelings when they were younger . So it can be complicated for them to let their partner know about their needs .
And this leads to misunderstandings and also unfulfilled expectations, which can create problems .
Fortunately , I’m here to offer you a cheat-sheet to exactly how guys think about relationships . Drawing from my own experience helping my clients , here are the Top 5 Habits That Make Men Crazy About You:
# 1: The Right Way To Play Hard To Get
I know this could sound like a cliche , but listen up.
Many women (and guys !) attempt to create attraction by putting on a distant-but- I-might-be-attracted -to-you type of act.
Likewise , these women may wait a few days before replying to messages so they don’t look desperate . Even worse, maybe they’ll pretend they’ve got more important things to do , expecting it’ll make a man more interested in them.
However this approach tends to backfire .
Doing this sends mixed messages – and if it keeps happening he’ll at some point get sick of it . This, of course , is a big turn-off.
There’s no problem showing interest in a person , so don’t bother playing silly mind games .
Instead , take a slightly different approach — one that focuses on authenticityand at the same time triggers his curiosity .
Send your guy signs that you like him, and be engaged when you’re together . Experts assert that a man begins falling for a woman once they understand that they are wanted.
As for the “playing hard to get” idea , we’re talking about actually staying busy.It’s not the empty type of busy where you’re at homeand ignoring him .
Be engaged with all parts of your life… including your job , your social life , hobbies and interests , and all those things that create a well-rounded and happy life.
If living your life means that you’re unavailable once in a while , that’s a good thing .
Richard Wiseman, who wrote the book “59 Seconds: Change Your Life in Under a Minute”, researched this .
He discovered that people that played hard to get gave the impression that they’re a high-value person . Nonetheless , they ADDITIONALLY had to be enthusiastic about the other person to be attractive .
In this way , it placed the subject in a more balanced and appealing light.
# 2: Rock His World
In short , you need to generate intense feelings within your guy while he’s with you . He’ll then link those feelings to you, which naturally intensifies the desire to be with you .
In an MIT study , behavioral scientists found that individuals have a habit of projecting their feelings from one experience the next.
How does this work ?
For instance , if you nearly had a car crash on the way to work, you would transfer those upset vibes with you into the workplace . That previous, unrelated experience would bleed into the rest of your day .
Some call this “psychological misattribution” or “emotional leak ” – the human propensity to affix strong feelings to the nearest person , even if they had little to do with it.
Also , it has to do with the fact that becoming physically aroused can easily convert into a sexual attraction. So, if you can find a way to keep things exciting for him – like going on an outdoor adventure or something physically stimulating — then he’ll attach those feelings onto you.
# 3: Laugh at His Jokes
For sure , many women react to this recommendation with a cynical smirk .
But hear me out – this could be huge in your connection .
First off , you don’t have to roll on the floor with tears in your eyesif his jokes flopped .
But if your funny bone really is tingling from his witty one-liners, then go on and let him know .
Studies show that humor is a big part of romantic attraction . As you already know, women are drawn to men who are funny or clever as itsignifies intelligence (which is an alluring quality ).
But recent research carried out by Westfield State College, University of Western Ontario, and McMaster University concluded that “men preferred those who were receptive to their own humor, particularly for sexual relationships.”
It’s not that he wants to be known as “funny” … but more about a guy’s desire to be appreciated by his partner .
You’d be amazed at the number of guys who tell me “being appreciated” is one of the most important things in a future relationship . So, appreciating his humor and personality is a good place to start .
# 4: Find Strength in Numbers
According to numerous studies , you become much more attractive by socializing with your friends .
For example , there’s research from Tilburg University in the Netherlands and the University of California that both identified what’s known as “The Cheerleader Effect.”
The study essentially shows that a person will think of you you as higher-value when you’re seen in a group.
On the surface , you might assume it’s due to the fact that you’ll appear more sociable or friendly .
But there’s an additional angle to it. You see, the human mind has a habit of categorizing individual elements (like shapes, objects and people) into basic groups .
This is mostly a hardwired survival characteristic to not visually focus only on one point – but instead the whole picture . And this impulse applies to an individual ‘s social life also .
So as a tip , you can set your Facebook (and online dating) profile photo to one with a group of girlfriends . Just make certain it’s obvious where you are in the photo so you don’t disappear in a sea of faces!
Planning to find a new man in a bar or event ? Bring one or two of your best friends with you! Social proofing is a real phenomenon , so use it to your benefit .
# 5: Get Sensual
There’s no surprise here. Men , just like women, want intimacy .
But youmight be surprised — and downright worried — at the number of women struggling in this department .
A lot of don’t even realize power of feminine charm to win men over .
And I’m not saying you need to act out an adult movie to get him excited .
I’m telling you to get aware of a man’s hot buttons, and find out how to press them.
As an example , women under value the power of physical touch.
Most guys go their whole lives without experiencing the pure pleasure of a reassuring pat on the back, a hug, or other kinds of love .
So utilizing touch is a great way to spark his senses — whether it’s brushing against his arm or leg “inadvertently ” …
… or putting your hand on his arm for a few seconds .
Keep in mind , men love a flirtatious chase , and the seductive process of the “slow burn.”
One final tip – there’s an additional characteristic I forgot to discuss earlier, yet it has immense power to make him fall in love .
Research done at Rutgers University found a unique emotional characteristic in guys that they dubbed as an “emotional tripwire.”
When you understand exactly how this functions – and how to use it (which is extremely easy by the way ) …
… your man will immediately enter a state of extreme infatuation.
It’s like a splinter in his mind , making him incapable of seeing any other women in a romantic way — except YOU.
There’s a free video explaining this in SHOCKING detail, so make sure you’re sitting down before watching it:
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Wishing you all the best in life, love and happiness.
Linda of Woman In Relationship